Tap Into Your Hidden Emotional Power
Every action you’ve ever taken and every goal you’ve ever set were driven by an expected emotional payoff. We convince ourselves that we want more money, better relationships, improved health, or greater success—but these aren't the true desires. What we truly crave are the emotions we believe these things will bring us.
Reclaiming Control: How to Shift from Chaos to Peace
Eight years ago, I weighed 300 pounds. I was stuck in a career I despised. My marriage was toxic and volatile. I felt like everything in my life was falling apart, and I was constantly on edge. I took action relentlessly—always on the go, always moving, always worried, frustrated, and angry.
You Are the Soul in Control
There's a topic I've avoided developing content around because I was afraid I didn't understand it enough to explain it well enough to help others understand. This topic is about the ego, letting go of the ego, and assuming your rightful place as the Soul in Control. I'm letting go of the ego's fear (you'll soon understand), and I'm going to give it a shot.
Raising Your Level of Consciousness
It's sometimes difficult to explain to others exactly what's happened in my life over the past 8 years. Every circumstance in my life has upgraded.
Do You Have the Courage to Be Disliked?
I spent a lot of years hiding who I was from the world. My first book The Imposter In Charge was one of my first attempts to expose my real self to the world. In that book I share many traumas, tragedies, abuses, and failures that my family and I experienced, and I also shared the heroes journey we took to begin overcoming our shadowed past.
Create Your Dream Life in 2024!
My wife Angie and I are living the life we dreamt of years ago. We attended a weekend workshop to create a vision for our lives, and we immediately saw some things begin to change around us. It's like the universe went into action on our behalf. It was like magic. And from that point on, I began to believe in magic. At least I learned that life was my ally, not my adversary.
Shared Standards, Unconditional Love, Unquestioned Bond.
Years ago, Angie told me that we would eventually build a business around our relationship, just like we had built a life around our bond. When I asked why she thought that, she said it was because many people asked her about the relationship we had built together. Some people thought it was fake and were questioning the integrity of how we showed up, but even more were asking about how we had built something so beautiful and powerful.
Poor Mind, Poor Life. Rich Mind, Rich Life.
I think one of the biggest regrets of my life is knowing that no one taught me that what you think about, you become. It seems so simple now. But this simple concept alluded me for the first four decades of my life.
Are You Willing To Be Rich?
"Well, it's not like I need to be rich or anything."
"Money's not that important."
"I just need enough to live."
When I talk about money with people, sometimes without even saying so, people make it obvious in their words that they're struggling financially. Look at the quotes above. These are common sentences in one form or another from a majority of people on the planet who are in financial turbulence. The sad part is as long as they believe their words and keep speaking them, they'll never do better.
Wherever You Are, Start There
I sat on a stool in front of 40 people in my Choose Your Destiny Vision Intensive Workshop. People were packed in and the entire room was full. In the past I struggled to even sell 20 tickets to my workshops when we booked a bigger room, so this time we booked a room with a maximum capacity of 40. This time we had to tell people that we were full, and we began to sell seats to the next one in November.
The Successful Mindset - An Easy Blueprint To Create Wealth And Success
I've studied the mindset and behaviors of successful people, and I've also studied the mindset and behaviors of unsuccessful people. There are some vast differences in how they think and operate. But once you recognize these differences and do the work to close the gap, results are assured.
Are You Committed Or Not?
I've never witnessed one person fully commit to something in their life and fail. Commitment is a state of being that carries with it the support of the entire universe.
You might even say that commitment creates luck.
But what is it to be fully committed? Let's explore.
Do You Know What Drives Your Self-Esteem?
I've battled self-esteem issues all my life, and at 50, I believe I'm finally understanding what drives my self-esteem in positive and negatives ways. I want to explain my discovery, but I also want you to know that the same things that drive my own sense of self-esteem might not impact yours, and vice-versa.
I've found this to be a very personal journey, and no one can tell you exactly what direction to point to increase yours. My hope is that I can help you see where to look.
Are You A Freedom Seeker?
I believe that anyone in this world can become anyone they want, and I also believe that anyone can achieve anything they want. I don’t believe that there’s an invisible force who holds anyone back, and I don’t believe that this force answers some prayers and dismisses others.
Commitment: The Magic Ingredient To Anything You Want
I began an aggressive life transformation in March of 2016. Within a very short period of time I had lost 100 pounds, rebuilt my marriage and family, started a business and began waking up excited about the life I was building.
It was a super fun time in my life and I look back at those months and years fondly.
Since then there have been times when things didn't unfold the way I wanted them to, I got mixed results, or life was more of a rollercoaster than a rocketship.
Looking back and reflecting it's easy to spot the difference between the two states: my level of commitment to new outcomes and circumstances.
In this article I'm going to discuss commitment, and why it's the magic ingredient to getting anything you want.
Things I'd Teach Younger Mike Kitko
A few weeks ago, my wife Angie and I traveled to New Orleans so that I could speak at a Real Estate Mastermind. It was a full day with multiple speakers, and I enjoyed listening to the other speakers just as much as I enjoyed speaking. Every time I participate in one of these events, I learn so many new things. But usually there's one single line, lesson or concept that really touches me. This event was no different.
Thank God for Unanswered Prayers
In this article I’ve got to admit something that’s not easy to admit. I typically don’t get what I want. I know that I teach that you can have whatever you want in this world, but I’ve got to come clean.
I almost never get what I want. I get better than I want. Let me explain.
Take the Next Step in Your Life, from the Inside-Out
We live in an inside-out world. Most people are living from the outside-in, which means they believe a certain outcome or circumstance outside of them is needed in order to rearrange or manipulate the thoughts and feelings that they have inside of them. This is just playing victim, and refusing to take control of what's happening in your mind and body.
Retrain Your Body to Feel Joy
When we don't know better, ife has a way of helping us get stuck in a constant state of worry, fear, and doubt. If you look around at that people in your life living in a state of struggle,, most of them believe "that's the way it is."
It's doesn't have to be. You've trained your mind and body how to live in a constant state of worry, fear, and doubt. If you want better, you can retrain your body to feel peace, love, and joy. But you can't keep living the same life, doing the same things, and expect different outcomes. You must do the things that will create the results you want.
Do You Really Want To Grow, Or Are You Fighting To Stay The Same?
Repeat after me:
"If I always do what I always did, I'll always get what I always got."
Pretty simple concept, right?
I work with a lot of people. I watch some of them change their entire lives and recreate their circumstances, and some remain stuck. There's a vast difference between them, and there's nothing anyone can do to help the ones that remain stuck. They might say they want better, more, or different, but when it comes time to get to work, they choose to remain the same.
Let me explain the difference between the two groups.